The question has been answered - apparently I am the woman
Brendon and I both interviewed at Intellinet. Part of the application process is taking a personality test. The test is offered online and supposedly delves deep into your psyche by asking you to rank sets of words. Anyway - Brendon and I naturally compared test results and we found the outcome pretty hysterical.
According to the test, I talk to much, am disorganized and impulsive, emotional, optimistic and I exaggerate. I'm apparently a woman! Brendon, on the other hand is apparently impatient, insensitive, bad listener, blunt and overbearing. He's apparently a man. This clears up the mystery about the two of us when we share dinner at some of those wings places after user group meetings.
Apparently I'm the wife. I'm a little disappointed in that.